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A Picture Speaks a Thousand Words!

做个心中有爱的人

有关爱情婚姻

August 31st, 2011 Filed under: HappyReading, LessonsOfLife, PraiseLord by luna

在我20岁前梦想着一个“白马王子”,他爱我,疼我,哄我,一切以我为中心。 只要我找到他,我就会幸福一生。 可是经历了一些蹉跎岁月后,我慢慢明白“爱”不是他爱我,而是要我先去爱他。

最近读了一本书叫“The Power of a Positive Wife” (中文名“才德贤妻百分百”)by Karol Ladd. 这本书我今日读完。意义匪浅! 我必须跟大家一起分享,因为作者的观念我都非常认同。 我觉得如果你用心去读的话或多或少都会有些帮助或启发。

“真爱并非靠‘发现’, 而是要创造出来。 真爱是天天选择爱另一半,在每天的选择当中,真爱便萌发而成长。”

选择爱并不一定很容易。 耶稣可没说,“去爱那些容易爱的人,当那人变得很难去爱,就可以放弃。” 相反, 他的信息是: 就算不容易,也要彼此相爱

作者分享了几点如何能让婚姻中的你幸福起来:

1. 不要老是想到自己

如果我老是想到“我,我的,我自己”,只把焦点摆在自己身上, 几乎一定会令自己失望! 作为基督徒,我们的焦点应该是上帝的身上。 作者的答案是:好妻子处方中最重要的成分,就是以神为中心(不是以丈夫为中心)。

2. 全心全意去爱别人,服事别人,原谅别人

最能提振自我价值的良药,莫过于适当地去爱别人。 当你主动而真诚地爱周遭的人,就会越来越坚强。

3. 想想你的生活方式

很多时候我们觉得自己很差劲多半是因为我们在某种程度上没有顺服神和他的诫命。 唯有顺服神才能得到丰富的喜乐。

4. 晓得神创造你,爱你,且一直在你身上作工

要相信主已经为你计划好了积极的方向。

有人说,我和另一半已经不再相爱了。 其实当有人说“不再相爱”,意思是“我再也不愿意努力去爱你了,我宁愿按照我喜欢的,找一个能让我快乐的人”。 问题是,你大概找不到一个容易爱的人。 当然有些人比较好相处, 但即是人就有缺点。 能超越对方弱点的爱,才是真爱,真爱才能历久弥坚。 正如经文所说“凡事包容,凡事相信, 凡事盼望,凡事忍耐。”

有人说, “人若不是越来越愁苦,就是越过越好。” 真话是真的。 马丁.路德说过,“两个懂得饶恕的人结为连理,就是幸福美满的婚姻。” 所以说饶恕是KEY。 字典里说,“饶恕就是放弃憎恶或想惩罚的欲望; 不再生气;宽恕; 放弃一切惩罚对方的念头。” 换句话说,纵使觉得自己有权利生气怀怨,也要放下这权利而选择饶恕。

饶恕不只是意志力,更是心态; 不是一次就够,而是要坚持不断。 我们每个人都必须学会去饶恕别人。 怀怨会使我们一直活在过去,而饶恕的爱会让我们活在当下, 继续向前,活出丰盛得胜的生命。

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August 31st, 2011 Filed under: FeelingBlue, LessonsOfLife, PraiseLord by luna

做知心姐姐的最大好处就是得到朋友的信任,他们愿意向我诉说心中的烦恼与纠结。 最大缺点就是知心姐姐没有诉苦的地方。 当心情堵塞的时候想找个朋友谈谈,不用翻电话本都知道 i have no one to go to. 我只能默默祷告查经,希望从上帝那里能得到一些启发智慧和勇气。

箴言16:3 你所做的,要交托耶和华, 你所谋的,就必成立。

这是我翻到看到的第一句话。 感谢主。

箴言16:5 凡心里骄傲的, 为耶和华所憎恶

提醒着我时时刻刻要谦卑,不骄傲不评价。

箴言16:21-24 心中有智慧, 必称为通达人; 嘴中的甜言,加增人的学问。 人有智慧就有生命的源泉;愚昧人必被愚昧惩治。 智慧人的心教训他的口,又使他的嘴长学问。 良言如同蜂房, 使心觉甘甜,使骨得医治。

有智慧的人可以管住自己的嘴,不会说伤害别人的话。 有智慧的人懂得说话的方式,让人听后心服口服。 这点我要继续努力。 智慧是生命的源泉,我一生的追求。

箴言16:32 不轻易发怒的,胜过勇士; 治服己心的,强如取城。

时时刻刻要控制自己的情绪。 能够把握自己的情绪的人才是有智慧的。 能够把握自己的心之人才是真正的强人!

最后,

箴言16:33 签放在怀里, 定事由耶和华。

一切交托给主。 祂不会带给我们承受不了的。 能够承受的会让我们变得更加刚强!

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关于拍照

August 25th, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized by luna

等了快一年的5D MARK III还是没有出来, 而且一点消息都没有. 实在让人很郁闷~ 现在花钱买5D II实在觉得有些冤大头. 都等了这么久了…

越来越多的朋友喜欢我的照片, 要求我帮他们拍片了. 我拿着xsi实在是有些不好意思~ 明年有个wedding人家指名让我去拍, 包吃包住的活儿. 可是我看着我的50mm实在没信心. 看来今年必须再进个镜头. 只是海啸后Canon直接涨价, 货物紧缺… 继续郁闷~

拍照的事情拍满满了~ 我就期望拿着狗头拍出大片吧.

这周末拍一MM
下周室内T&R
再下周模特外拍
九月还有一对定婚的couple照.

一切顺其自然吧! 先加强自己是真的! 🙂 加油!

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婚礼婚礼又一个婚礼 III

August 24th, 2011 Filed under: 50mm 1.4f, PhotoBlog, wedding by luna

今天是我干闺女的生日. 我先祝她生日快乐! 健康成长! 话说这一转眼一年就过去了. 我们婚后的生活非常美满开心. 但是人也不免变得有些懒惰安逸了. 单身时候常常户外运动出去跟朋友玩, 现在除了必要的活动和好友们聚会以外我们都只顾安居乐业自我(们)陶醉. 😀

一年了, 我都没把婚礼准备情况记录完整. 实在太不该了. 不过想想婚前跟好友YY去希腊的游记还一直拖着, 这个就实在不算什么了. 😛 等我找时间一定都补上. 今天有些时间把婚礼准备的最后一部分写出来留做纪念.

除了Invitations and Programs 是我们自己手工制作, 我们的wedding party favors也都是自己做的.

我们在商店里买了三种不同的KISSES. TIP: 去Costco and Sam’s买的话有的时候没有, 就算有, 种类不多或者会夹杂其他巧克力糖. 如果你只想要KISSES最好去Wal-Mart or 当地drug stores去买. 价钱贵不了多少, 但味道有各种各样!

每个KISSES上我们贴了从TAOBAO上买来的小喜字. 糖盒是在TAOBAO上买的, 专门配我们的婚礼主题和颜色. 折盒子没费太多时间, 我们在旅途road trip的时候, 他开车我折纸盒. 等到达目的地我也折好了. 🙂

婚前一周我们每晚都忙到深夜. 这不我家Q小某认真做工中. 🙂 如果你的伴娘和你在一个城市, 你可以请她们帮忙. 我的伴娘好友们都在外地, 只能自己来.

贴好喜字, 我们开始装盒.

都装完了! 这是我们party favors的一部分.

还有一个需要自己做的事情就是给外地来的朋友们准备礼物. 酒店定好后, 我就把水, 水果, 糖果, 小吃, 当地的地图和好玩的地方的介绍都放在礼物袋里. 然后提前一天送到酒店大堂, 这样外地的朋友来check-in的时候就能得到一个welcome package, 是我们的心意. 可以算是比较体贴和thoughtful吧.

婚礼前需要做的小事情很多很杂, 但感谢主, 我们办得都很顺利也很圆满. 婚礼后我总是陆续听到朋友说我们婚礼很漂亮很圆满很周到. 嗯. 这就是我们的最初想法. 大家都要开开心心吗!

这是一年前写的婚礼准备工作一准备工作二. 希望对在准备婚礼的朋友们有帮助.

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书评: The Waiting Place by Eileen Button

August 17th, 2011 Filed under: HappyReading by luna

The Waiting Place “learning to appreciate life’s little delays” by Eileen Button

生活中有很多等待很多未知数会让我们恐慌焦虑毫无安全感。 这本以自传性写出的一个一个智慧小故事既生动又感人。 我觉得最难得的是所有故事都是真实的。作者的矛盾挣扎我们生活中也会遇到或许周围的朋友就经历着同样的故事。 看着别人如何去面对问题面对痛苦面对生老病死面对人生的一切给自己带来很多启发。 我们确实要学会感激感恩,包括生命中的一些等待一些延迟。

“Suddenly it feels like I have been waiting a really long time at a bus stop, only to be told that the bus no longer follows this route. I could attempt to find the new route, but now I’m not sure I want to travel where it’s headed.

“There are times when we are left only with what feels like the wrong ending. When we listen closely enough, we think we hear the angels cry.

Mother Teresa once said, “Do not think that love, in order to be genuine, has to be extraordinary. What we need is to love without getting tired”. … Oh, I know God gives us courage. I know he doesn’t give us more than we can handle. It’s just that sometimes my courage wanes, and I no longer want to wait. Sometimes life and love do end up feeling like a bit more than I can manage. This particular waiting place is crushing me.

Yes, I know God will never leave me or forsake me. I just wish, once in a while, I could feel his hand pressing into my own.”

以上是她的一些文字心声。 我们有时候也会有同样的struggles同样的uncertainties, 但感谢主, 他永远都不会给我们,我们接受不了的重量。 🙂

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